Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

God Will Not Give Up on You

God wants to gift you with a degree of love that only He can give. He will not rest until He has found you, no matter how lost a lamb you think you are (or try to be.) No matter what, He is going to gift you with love and patience and long-suffering and kindness—over...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

God Is Irrationally Kind

Recently I was reading the parable of the workers who come late to the field and yet the Lord pays them the same as those who came earlier. (See Matthew 20.) As I read, I saw how similar to the story of the prodigal son (in Luke 15) this story of the laborers in the...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

Recovery Isn’t Something You Do

It’s something you allow to happen. It’s a spiritual experience. It wells up from the inside of you. It doesn’t come from any effort that you apply to yourself, or apply yourself to. You have to allow success to happen. God wants to bless you with it...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

Peaks and Valleys, Ebbs and Flows

If you were in an intensive care unit, would you want the electrocardiogram to suddenly start producing a straight line?  Of course not!  As long as that line is going up and down, it means you’re alive.  Let the line go straight, with no valleys and no peaks, or in...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

Celebrating Abstinence

Verily, this is fasting and prayer, or in other words, rejoicing and prayer. (D&C 59:14)   Fasting is not meant to be a negative experience. It is more than just refraining from eating. Fasting is as much about attitude as about action. It refocuses our...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

The Atonement in the Here and Now

We think of childbirth as an event—a one-time something that happens on a particular day at a particular time. Nowadays, it’s often an event we can schedule ahead and put in our planner. We don’t have to wait for it to happen on its own. We can book a room and induce...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

Some People Have to Die to Get Sober

Recently, I watched the movie, “17 Miracles” that depicted the Saints coming across the plains to Utah. I was deeply moved by the many sacrifices they made, even the loss of their own lives in some cases. We are quick to feel sorrow for those who died...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

The “Common Dilemma” of LDS People

And moreover, I say unto you, that there shall be no other name given nor any other way nor means whereby salvation can come unto the children of men, only in and through the name of Christ, the Lord Omnipotent. (Mosiah 3:17) As members of the LDS church we are all...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

The Good in All Things

This morning, I had been laying in bed awake since 2:10 a.m.  After about 30 minutes I decided to accept the reality of sleeplessness as a gift—a chance to experience some deep solitude. As I pondered on this, the voice of the Lord came into my mind and I perceived...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

Nothing Without God

In 1 Nephi 20:1-8, Nephi quotes from Isaiah 48. This is a long one so I’m not going to repost it here. You’re going to have to look this one up in your own set of scriptures or click the link to read it online. Go ahead. I’ll wait… Done? Okay. The Lord tells...
Recovery Begins When We Let Go of Perfection (Pt 1)

Behold, the Humility of God!

This evening, as I went to bed, I felt reluctant to kneel, and I expressed that reluctance to the Lord, rather than hiding it (and myself) from Him. I immediately felt His reassurance that He still loves me and is willing to receive my prayers, no matter what posture...